Bereavement, how do I tell my son?…?

December 29, 2011 by Linda  
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My son is 6 years old, and in his young mind, has already had a few “deaths”. Our dog died prematurely of a heart problem, our rabbits died, because next doors ferret got them (he doesn’t know that bit), our fish died after a 4 day power cut removed their filter and heat.

He seems to think everything dies, and his grandfather on my husband’s side died before he was born, but we have paintings and photos of him, so he knows he died and asks about it, to which I reply briefly, hoping not to scar him for live.

Today, suddenly, my father died, and despite being on warfarin, this was out of the blue, at his job. I am devastated.

My son loved him – how do I tell him? Please help me?

Can any one tell me if they is a good web site were i can talk about bereavement?

December 22, 2011 by Linda  
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