Documentation Required to Process a Death

December 30, 2008 by Linda  
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When someone you love dies there are lots of decisions which have to be made and you will have lots of questions. Here we aim to answer those questions and provide a forum for your to ask additional questions and get responses from other people in the same situation.

The first thing to keep in your mind is that you don’t have to do everything by yourself, ask a close friend or relative to help you.

Here are some of the most frequently asked questions in relation to documentation need to process a death:

FUNERAL HELP!! :( x?

January 20, 2012 by Linda  
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It’s my grandad’s funeral on thursday and i don’t know whether to go. he died on the 6th feb which was my birthday and we were close. I am scared of coffins though and will probably faint.
he is being cremated aswell.
should i go?
im 13 and have never been to a funeral before x

CRUISE BEREAVEMENT SERVICE say i am too upset for counselling. please help?

December 27, 2011 by Linda  
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I lost my daughter a while ago to cancer and i just cant cope! I feel every day is such a struggle to do anything. I dont go out anymore, i dont answer my door or phone and my heart just aches for my daughter. I cant cope with the fact that she has died and when my gp referred me to cruise they came round to assess me and said i was too upset for counselling and when i get myself sorted give them a ring and they will come back and reassess. I hurt every day for her, i cry all the time, i dont know what to do with myself. i just want my daughter and no one else. why did she have to leave me? my ex husband is being a right nasty evil git and the things he has done to me are unbelievable and unforgiveable too. please please can someone tell me what i can do? i am taking antidepressants and they dont seem to work. Every day i just wake up and want her back and nothing else matters. i have even started to think about taking my own life to see if that takes me to her, who can help?
i really dont know how i can be too upset for counselling when that is what they are there for. I have absolutely no confidence in ringing people or approaching them myself. in fact i am struggling to do this but i have a good friend sitting next to me pushing me. she has tried to get help but they say i have to ask for it. i just want my daughter back and i know in the real world i cant but i dont know what to do anymore.

Help for a funeral please.?

December 22, 2011 by Linda  
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My father in law is dying and we have been told that he has days, if not hours, to live. He lives in New Zealand and the funeral will be held there. However, we are in the UK with no hope and getting the money to go out there so we are holding a remembrance service here in the UK for the family and friends here. I have arranged the church etc but I am unsure of what needs doing.
Do I need an order of service? What would it need to include? what is the correct funeral ettiquette? Please help, I have only ever been to two funerals and can not remember much about them.

Thanks
Sorry, I think I may have caused confusion here. I have not booked the church as yet but have spoken to the vicar as it is not our local parish and he has agreed to hold the remembrance service and say prayers in the normal service. Basically I am trying to get everything done that I can before the dreaded news so that I can give my hubby and step-daughter my full attention and support.

Funeral speech at my Grandads funeral. Don’t know what to say. Any help please?

December 19, 2011 by Linda  
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My grandad died on wensday morning and i have to attend his funeral on friday. I want to say a few words at the service but I have no idea what to say. My cousin is also saying something but she is reading a poem. I want to say something else but i don’t have a clue on what to talk about. I am 15 and have never been to a funeral before. I was very close to my grandad and even though I’m not much of a public speaker I want to say something because I know I will regret it afterwards if I don’t. Any help will be greatly appreciated

If Theres Anything I Can Do: How To Help Someone Cope With Grief

December 8, 2011 by Linda  
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Its Awful When Someone You Love Goes Through The Pain Of Bereavement But Theres No Need To Feel Helpless In The Face Of Grief. This Book Is Full Of Little Ways (and Big Ways) You Can Help Someone You Care About Cope With Grief That Little Bit Better.
If Theres Anything I Can Do: How To Help Someone Cope With Grief

Can I get financial help with my mothers funeral, am on low income but no benefits?

November 10, 2011 by Linda  
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Funeral tomorrow any one help me?

November 2, 2010 by Linda  
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im going to my great aunts funeral tomorrow and we were very close. ive never been to a funeral so i just wondered who has and if any one can tell me what to expect.
thx in advance
x

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep

February 18, 2009 by Linda  
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If there’s anything I can do ….

January 31, 2009 by Linda  
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